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A Story About Stories

Good Morning, Everyone.

The first Sunday in February 2024 finds my little corner of home cold and gray. I hate to admit it, but a little snow dusting could make the gray worthwhile and drive the bleakness away.

It is Children’s Author and Illustrator Week (I am extending the celebration through the month). Pour your brew. Let’s talk about story.

If we were having coffee together, I would tell you I’ve been thinking of my paternal grandma, Mary, who was a voracious reader. Although she enjoyed historical narratives and books about faraway places, fiction was her go-to favorite. She loved a good story.  

I imagined she was a steady patron of her local library during her youth. As a young married woman, her family lived in a multi-generation walk-up in the Graves End section of Brooklyn. Many hands helped with child rearing, cooking, washing, cleaning, and daily shopping. Women and girls  knitted, darned socks, or sewed dress factory piece work at the end of the day. But I imagine that living in a multi-generation home provided Mary opportunities to get lost in a book. She could be exempt from the day’s end chores because there was always someone else to do them. 

Mary probably had to pare back her reading when her father passed away and then, soon after, her husband died and her mother’s health slowly faded. There was little time to escape into a novel. Redbook magazines and Reader’s Digest short stories helped satisfy that reader itch, but they were simple bandaids. 

With two of her four children living at home, Mary needed a job. What better place to spend a work day than her favorite place—the Brooklyn Public Library. She found herself surrounded by vetted information, passionate readers, children beginning their book loving journeys, and stories. Patrons sought her for recommendations. Mary and her sister-in-laws, who also worked at the library, had lively book discussions. She borrowed books, bought worn out books for 5 cents, and culled through the books that were too battered to remain on a shelf. She introduced her grandchildren to Margaret and H.A Rey’s Curious George, Beatrix Potter’s bunnies, ducks, and irritated farmers, and Russel and Lillian Hoban’s Frances stories. 

On most Sundays and all holidays Grandma’s second-floor walk-up was the place for visiting and eating all day. A gaggle of kids ran up and down the stairs and played tag and hide-n-seek under the piano or tight closets. I took part and probably instigated much of the cousin chaos, but at some point, I would sit in a little corner of my grandma’s front room with a picture book and a little one reading the harrowing adventures of a little white duck on the yellow waters of the Yangzee River and the outrageous antics of a cat wearing a hat. Grandma also stocked chapter books, and novels. I still think about some of the book’s characters and places I read in my grandma’s front room.

I borrowed her books and brought them back the next time I visited – which was always soon. I loved carving private time from my busy home, getting lost in the adventures and conflicts, and meeting characters beyond my safe suburban home. I liked to ponder what could happen next. What were my favorite characters doing now? My writing desires stemmed from reading Grandma’s books.

My parents, well educated and excellent readers, read to gain practical knowledge. Books and magazines about how things worked, biology, and astronomy filled the book shelves and bathroom magazine racks. These days, my 90-year-old mother reads downloaded books by physicists and is exploring the theories of black holes and time. 

When I was a kid, the library was not in our family routine. I got my first library card when I was a teen and could bike myself into town. An aunt, who noted my thick novel selections, commented that reading will make me smart. I often think about this notation. I was not into reading for the smarts. I was in it for the story. For the record, I am not any smarter than the average person. 

The draw to read and create stories continues to be something I need to do. Reading and writing allows me to understand human nature, experience how the events of time steer life into unexpected adventures, and how humor engages us. There is probably so much more. I am at a loss to explain how satisfied I feel when I read a good book—be it a thoughtful 32-page picture book or an epic novel that takes me weeks to finish. I thank my grandma for that gift. 

Did someone inspire your reader’s life?

Great BIG Thanks and appreciation go out to Natalie the Explorer who keeps the Weekend Coffee Share percolating.

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13 thoughts on “A Story About Stories”

  1. Dear Ann

    I loved reading this and remembering Aunt Mary. My first book was Pippy Longstocking

    Aunt Mary brought it home from library for me and I started reading one after the other of course Aunt Mary supplied all the books

    love ya Cousin Joann

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  2. Hi Antoinette,

    I love reading and loved this essay. I did not have such a person in my life and when young, thought I might be the first and only person in my family who loved reading. I was fortunate though than I had a mom who early on recognized this and made sure the house had many things to feed my itch. She tried it with my sisters too, but they pursued other distractions while I could often be found curled up in my room with something with lots of printed words – most often stories but also non-fiction.

    You essay brought back so many great memories and mental challenges that reading dropped me into. Your mention of astronomy and black holes was spot on. I had read about and was digesting how black holes could work as early as 1976 and worked out stellar lensing well before it had that name.

    Thanks for the fun glance back to when my grey matter was so much fresher and agile.

    Blessings

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    1. I was a very slow reader and sometimes had to go over pages twice (still do) but a good story will make the effort worth while.

      Mom is the intellect. Unfortunately I cannot keep up with her book reporting.

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      1. Ha – amen to your slow reader point. I too am not fast but have gotten better.

        I also just lost a better part of my morning going back to check out what I thought back in 1976 and discovered that Einstein beat me in pretty much everything I thought I came up with myself. It would seem that he beat me by publishing my ideas only 3 decades before I dreamt them up. . .

        Talk about slow. . .

        Well, it was fun thinking them up anyway and if you have to lose to someone, I’m guessing that Einstein won’t rub my nose in being so late to the thought experiment. I wish I knew what article got me going on this way back then.

        I was trying to balance my reading by limiting my story reading and adding some science stuff to push myself in directions I otherwise would have never thought of.

        Stories I could easily love. The science stuff was cool but hardly worth loving.

        Hey – did you see that I tried another round of Story Chat with Marsha?

        She published my, “Unexpected Fireworks” 2+ weeks ago and in it I tried to do several things that were a stretch for me. Her chatting audience really nailed me with some great feedback, but the basic story did well. Their bottom line was that it just wasn’t long enough for the story this essay needed to be, so I may rewrite it in a longer version.

        It also twisted a theme that I’ve largely avoided and multiple times came close to not pursing, but these characters really wanted some air time so I gave in and turned them loose.

        If you’ve not seen it and are interested, I’ve posted my own copy of the original story without all the comments that Marsha collected.

        https://garyawilsonstories.wordpress.com/unexpected-fireworks-sc3-240123/

        Blessings

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  3. Antoinette,

    I too had quite the collection of “older edition” books and immersed myself in story books and chapter books asI got older. I remember, the “Brooklyn Public Library” stamp on the majority of my home library. I still have a few favorites from my childhood, including ” All of Kind Family” and “Are You There God, It’s Me Margaret”. I read and read through my childhood and my young(er) adult life, even if it was for only a few minutes before turning out the light. I don’t often find the time to immerse myself in a good read, but maybe those days are coming! Thanks for the post and the memories.

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  4. Hi, Antoinette – I loved this deep dive into your early reading journey. I’ve had a library card for as long as I can remember. I absolutely loved going to the library with a friend and finding two copies of the same book that we both wanted to read. I believe that was the start not only to my love of books but my affinity for book clubs! ❤

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  5. Hi Antoinette, Thank you for sharing your early reading journey with us at #Weekendcoffeeshare. My parents, especially my Dad, inspired us to read early and daily. I agree with you it’s a gift.

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